What does happiness mean to you? Do we all need a Santa in
our life to bring that to us?
Happiness is a relative term I believe. Happiness is a frame
of mind and we all need to create that framework for all of us. Over time, I
have realized that life is what you make out of it, stress is when you let it
rule your mind. The little things that matter to you the most suddenly start to
get sidelined and petty things like your job takes the priority.
We are citizens of a democracy country (bull ****, I know)
and we still live under the constant fear of being kicked out of job, being not
rated the best at work, social pressure and what not. Really? Is that what
freedom is all about?
The current work culture, be it any industry, has really
bogged us all down. I have to do this, coz that’s what my boss want me to do on
a holiday or at work but I do not really feel that’s the right thing to do. I
will get married coz the society is questioning me. I will have kids, coz I
have been married for long enough to have one, as the society says. Waaow… am
living a life of someone else, where are my own terms and conditions of living
a life?
I want all you readers (as little as I may have), to think
through it and try to bring a change in your life (easier said than done, I
know). But I want to make a promise to
myself that I will do what I have to do, what gives me happiness and what means
the most to me, my child and my family. No body has the right to tell me what I
should do or how I should do. If you like it, we will all win, if you don’t,
that’s the door on my right..
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you
do are in harmony.
Mahatma Gandhi
Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn't know you
left open.
John Barrymore
